An unplugged ceremony simply means asking your guests to put their phones and cameras away while you say your vows. More and more couples are asking for one, and as a photographer, I can see why.
Why have an unplugged ceremony?
- Your guests are present: you’ll look up and see faces, not screens
- Clear aisle photos: no arms or phones leaning out as you walk down the aisle
- Real reactions: I can capture the emotion on your guests’ faces, not the backs of their phones
- Nobody posts before you do: you get to share the first photos when you’re ready
What about the rest of the day?
Most couples only ask for the ceremony to be unplugged. Phones come back out for the drinks reception, and guests’ snaps of the party are a lovely extra. Your sneak peeks arrive within 48 hours anyway, so you won’t be waiting long.
How to ask your guests
On your invitations or website
A short line works well, such as “We’d love you to be fully present with us during our ceremony, so please keep phones and cameras away until we’re married.”
A sign at the entrance
A welcome sign by the ceremony room is a gentle reminder: “Welcome to our unplugged ceremony. Please switch off your phones and enjoy the moment with us.”
A word from your celebrant
This is the most effective option. Ask your registrar, celebrant or minister to remind everyone just before you arrive.
Plan a phone moment instead
If you’d like guests to take photos too, give them a moment for it. Once you’re married, your celebrant can invite everyone to grab their phones as you walk back down the aisle, or save it for the confetti throw.
Questions couples ask
Is it rude to ask guests not to take photos?
Not at all. It’s a really common request now, and most guests are happy to relax and watch.
Can we still have photos from our guests?
Yes. Phones only need to be away for the ceremony, so you’ll still get plenty of guest photos from the rest of the day.
Do churches allow photos during the ceremony?
It depends on the church and the minister, so always check. Some ask for no photos during certain parts of the service, and I’ll always follow their guidance.
