If you’ve ever said “we’re so awkward in photos”, you’re in good company. It’s one of the most common worries couples have before their wedding, and the good news is that you don’t need to be a natural model to love your photos.
Get to know your photographer
It’s so much easier to relax with someone you know. We’ll chat at your consultation, by phone, Zoom or in person, so by the wedding I’m a familiar face rather than a stranger with a camera.
Choose a natural style
With natural, documentary-style photography, most of your photos are of real moments as they happen, so there’s no pressure to pose all day. I give gentle direction for portraits and groups, and the rest of the time you simply enjoy your wedding. There’s more in natural wedding photography: what to expect.
Focus on each other, not the camera
During your portraits I’ll give you little prompts: walk together, whisper something, hold each other close. Talk to each other, laugh, and forget I’m there. The best photos often happen in between.
Give your hands a job
Holding hands, your bouquet, a drink or each other instantly looks more relaxed than arms hanging by your sides.
Leave time to breathe
Rushing makes anyone tense. Build in 20 to 30 minutes for couple portraits with a buffer around them. My timeline guide has more on this.
Wear what feels like you
If you’re comfortable in your outfit and shoes, it shows. Walk and sit in your dress or suit before the day, and keep comfy shoes nearby for portraits on grass.
Real is better than perfect
Some of the best photos come from laughing at a stumble or a gust of wind catching the veil. Let the little imperfect moments happen.
Questions couples ask
Will you tell us how to pose?
I’ll give gentle direction and prompts so you’re never left wondering what to do, but I won’t have you holding stiff poses.
How long do couple portraits take?
Around 20 to 30 minutes during your drinks reception, plus an optional 10 minutes for golden hour.
